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A Letter to the Man Who Feels Like Something Is Wrong

Updated: May 5

Brother,


There’s a kind of fear that doesn’t speak clearly—it just shows up in your body.


Your chest gets tight. Your limbs feel shaky. Your head feels light, like you might pass out. You check your pulse. You notice every breath. You scan for danger, even when you’re alone in your room.


Your stomach twists. Your skin tingles. You feel heat in your face, or cold in your hands. Your vision sharpens, or narrows. Sometimes your head buzzes. Sometimes it feels like you’re not even fully in your body.


And behind it all, one question:

"What’s happening to me?"


Maybe you worry it’s your heart. Maybe your brain. Maybe you don’t even know what you’re afraid of—only that something must be wrong.


But I want to say something to you—clearly and calmly:


What you’re feeling isn’t strange. It isn’t rare. And it isn’t proof that something is broken.


Fear has a physical shape. It runs through the same nerves that tell your body to brace for danger—even when no danger is there.


It’s not weakness. It’s a false alarm.


You’re not going crazy. You’re not broken. You’re not about to die. You’re just stuck in a feedback loop where your body reacts to your thoughts—and your thoughts react to your body.


That’s why the spiral feels so convincing. The sensations feel real. Because they are. But the meaning you attach to them doesn’t have to be.


You can notice the feeling without believing the story.


The story that says, "This is serious."

The story that says, "This feeling means I’m in danger."

The story that says, "I can’t handle this."


Brother, you can. You are.


Let the sensations come. Don’t resist them. Let them rise, peak, and fade. Like a wave. Like a passing storm. They always do.


And when the noise is loud, come back to the present. Come back to your breath. Come back to your feet on the ground. Come back to what’s real.


You’re still here.

Still breathing.

Still a man of Reason.


Let fear say what it wants. You don’t have to answer. You don’t have to fight it. You just have to walk forward—not with panic, but with purpose.


You’re not alone in this. I’ve felt it too. Many of us have. And we’re still standing.


You’re not broken. You’re human. And you are not at the mercy of fear.


In strength,

Your brother on the Path


 
 

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