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“An Avalanche Is Coming!”

When the path is clear, a small stone is easy to ignore. But when fear clouds our vision, even a pebble can seem like the start of a deadly avalanche.


What Catastrophizing Looks Like


Catastrophizing is that fast leap from one small trigger to the worst possible end you can imagine.


You open an e-mail from work that says, “Let’s meet tomorrow,” and your mind jumps straight to I’m in trouble, I’ll lose my job, I’ll end up broke, and my life will unravel.


It’s not real preparation—it’s mental rehearsal for a disaster that likely won’t happen.



Why the Brain Slips Into It


  • Threat detection. Your mind is built to spot danger fast—often faster than it spots opportunity.

  • Anxiety’s amplifier. When you feel tense, small problems can sound enormous.

  • Confirmation bias. Once you fear the worst, you start noticing anything that seems to confirm it.


The more you follow these automatic patterns, the easier it becomes to treat every pebble like it’s already an avalanche.



The Hidden Price You Pay


  • Wasted energy. Stress builds up even when nothing bad actually happens.

  • Lost clarity. Good decisions get crowded out by worry and second-guessing.

  • Relationship strain. People around you can get drained by constant reassurance cycles.



Working Through It—What Often Helps


A lot of experts in cognitive psychology suggest a simple series of moves when you catch yourself catastrophizing:


1. Isolate the Thought. Slow down and notice exactly what you’re imagining. What’s the sentence or picture running through your head?


2. Examine the Evidence. Ask: “Is there any clear, factual sign that the worst is actually happening?” Not a hunch. Not a feeling. Real evidence only.


3. Reframe It. Shift your focus toward a more realistic—and empowering—view. Some examples:

  • “It’s good that my boss wants to meet—it shows communication is open.”

  • “Even if there’s feedback, that’s a chance to improve and show my value.”

  • “I’ve built a strong track record. One meeting doesn’t erase that.”


4. Bring in Reason. Take a step back and check the logic.

  • “Is there anything that actually suggests a positive or neutral reason for this?”

  • “Are there signs that things are still on track?”

  • “What would a calm, reasonable person see here?”


Each of these steps weakens the panic spiral and steadies your footing on the path.



Simple Practice (No Paper Needed)


Next time a fear spikes:


  • Pause.

  • Find the thought behind it.

  • Look for actual evidence.

  • Notice if you’re assuming the worst without cause.

  • Try reframing it—out loud or in your mind.

  • Remind yourself that Reason—not fear—is your best guide.


Even one clearheaded moment like this can start to shift the pattern over time.



Closing Thought


Almost every catastrophe that flashes through your mind will shrink or vanish under Reason’s light.

Most pebbles only become avalanches when we gather and stack them ourselves.

You don't have to live under piles you imagined—you can walk the real path instead.



This article is part of the Fog on the Path series — exploring the hidden traps that cloud judgment. See the full series here.

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