Most Men Are Trying to Solve the Wrong Problem
Consider this: when something feels wrong, most men assume the problem is external.. that "the problem is the problem." They think it’s the situation, the pressure, the uncertainty, the other person.. or something not quite known.. but bad.. that will happen in the future. And so they focus all their effort there... with endless cycles of planning, worrying, bracing, rehearsing. But really... that’s often not where the damage is happening at all... The real problem is usually

